fire of infinite grace

even after a very long spiritual practice, doing yoga, meditation and prayers, there are still many of us who struggle with our emotions and feelings. We still find it hard to stop Judging ourselves and others. We judge the way our body looks and how Someone behaves. We find it easy to offer advice to other people on how to embrace difficult times but when it comes our way, we hardly know what to do with it. We can show forgiveness and compassion to other people but we are not forgiving to ourselves or to someone who lives with us. This is just because it does not matter how refined and spiritual we think we are, we are not yet in communion with our inner-most being, we have not yet felt the fire of infinite grace blazing in our chest.