drop the certain

My friend:
The way I love you can only be told
By the hidden secret between your lips,
not by any assumption or intellect.
Now be courageous to drop the certain and the known,
Catch the fire without tongs,
Predictability is barren and dry,
Don’t go to sleep with expectations.
Only then I can say, you are truly in love.
Only then I can say, you are ready to  grow wings
and fly.